Two girl friends in open marriages explore unconventional sex: including swinging, sex toys, kink, hall passes, unicorns, impact play, swinger / lifestyle parties, bdsm, hot wife experiences, BDSM, threesomes, cosplay, nude resorts and more!
In each episode, they choose a sexy experience: live it, love it, fuck it (or not!), and tell you how it goes.
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Are you ready to unlock the mysteries of female sexuality? Come As You Are is a must-read for all vulva-owners and the partners who want to please them. In this episode, the Wives interview author Emily Nagoski on how her can help all women maximize their capacity for pleasure.
But before we dive into the details, mix yourself up this episode’s Cocktail – the Blood Orange Mule, while Ams recounts a ridiculous attempt to buy THC-infused lube in California
Then, the Wives FAN-GIRL over their favorite author, Emily Nagoski, and her award-winning book, Come As You Are.
Based on their initial read, the Wives learned the nitty gritty of female anatomy (how male parts and female parts are analogs of each other!), the Dual Control Model (with the notorious sexual “accelerators” and “brakes”), the difference between spontaneous and responsive desire and how to get all parts of your mind and body moving in one direction, for absolutely mind-blowing pleasure.
Next, the Wives go straight to the source, interviewing the incomparable Emily Nagoski, on Come As You Are as well as her newest project, which focuses on staying connected in a long term relationship.
Finally, the Wives assign themselves sexy homework: time to check out Come As You Are, the Workbook.
If you find female sexuality confusing and even frustrating, this book is a game-changer.
A very special thanks to Abbey Snider for editing assistance on this episode! You can check out Abbey’s podcast, Sweet Baby Gay at https://abbeydotproductions.com/.
Are you ready to lay back, relax and get touched ALL OVER? Erotic massage is a fantastic way get into a sexy mindset, amp up foreplay and reach new orgasmic heights.
For many women, the idea of an erotic massage, whether it is with their primary partner or with someone new, is a huge turn on. The problem is that women don’t have any place to go to look for information. So the wives are here to educate you on erotic massage options.
First, mix up this season’s most sophisticated cocktail, a Blood Orange Manhattan, while listening to this week’s Hot Tale! When Ams has a fantasy about meeting a sexy stranger at a bar, Mr. Ams and their new friend, Scarlett, step up to make her fantasy come true.
Next the Wives explore erotic massage, the use of massage techniques by one person on another person’s erogenous zones for their sexual pleasure. Erotic massage is used by some people on occasion as a part of sex, either as foreplay or as the final sex act. It doesn’t require any special skills, but there are a few ways to make the experience better: set the mood, take your time and use lots of oil or lube (of course!)
To take things to the next level, the Wives interview the sweet and sexy Lauren from Room77 podcast about her Art of Touch workshop.
Finally, the Wives discuss their sexy homework assignments: it’s time go to the professionals and get a true erotic massage! There is a large commercial erotic massage industry in some countries and cities, which may call their establishments massage parlors, spas, or saunas. If you look at the industry of erotic massage, or search for it online it has a super-seedy, male-pleasure dominating vibe. With names like “Happy Ending Massage” or links to porn hub. It can seem misogynistic, objectifying and transactional. So, the Wives consider ways to make this experience as empowering and sexy as possible.
Make tonight’s sex the ultimate in self-care. Use your words and ask your partner to give you an erotic massage!
Lauren is co-host of the Room 77 podcast.
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